I know of many Singaporeans in the same situation as high-lighted here. It is time for Singaporeans to speak out against this bad policy. http://singaporemind.blogspot.com/2011/12/discrimination-against-poor.html
Quote: Making the poor struggle and undermining the well being of Singaporean children with foreign mothers, harms thousands of families in our country. It exacerbates the pain of poverty for these families without any gains for our society. If the PAP may think that they gained something by penalising the poor for getting married and having children, but they have not...they have lost the trust and support of these men and everyone in the country that feels that each Singaporean should be treated with fairness and dignity.