I avoid making an argument over a view expressed by another person. That person is entitled to his or her view.
I may pose a different view, but I am not arguing about that person's view.
Here is an example. Suppose someone said that Lee HL is a good leader and he gave his reasons.
I would reply that I find Lee HL to be a bad leader and I give my reasons.
I do not wish to argue over his reasons on why Lee HL is a good leader. He is entitled to that view.
But if I agree with his reasons, I will say - I agree with your observation on (describing the reason).
I look for reason to agree. I do not look for points to argue over.
I may pose a different view, but I am not arguing about that person's view.
Here is an example. Suppose someone said that Lee HL is a good leader and he gave his reasons.
I would reply that I find Lee HL to be a bad leader and I give my reasons.
I do not wish to argue over his reasons on why Lee HL is a good leader. He is entitled to that view.
But if I agree with his reasons, I will say - I agree with your observation on (describing the reason).
I look for reason to agree. I do not look for points to argue over.
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